If you’re reading this, most likely you’re struggling in a relationship, you want to know how to get to happy, and how to create the relationships that you’ve only dreamed about. Right?
Let me help you!
As a mediator, I helped over 1,500 people to break up or get divorced. I know a lot about what an unhappy relationship looks like. I also know how to help people move from conflict to collaboration, from stressed out and miserable, to happy.
The truth is that with some small, simple tweaks, you can improve a lot of relationships.
Are there also relationships that can’t be saved? Absolutely! I have plenty of experience with those as well.
I used to be a rescuer, running around trying to make everyone happy. That’s why I was so good at mediating! I saw everyone else’s needs!
As for me? I didn't have needs. If I did, they weren't anything that anyone else had to tend to.
Then, in 2015, I had two people try to kidnap me. After the attempted kidnapping, I just couldn't rescue other people anymore. I was having a hard enough time rescuing myself. And I got a hard lesson in who in my life was there for me, and who wasn’t.
It was one of the worst times of my life. It also taught me a lot about reciprocal relationships, about making sure that there is both give and take in relationships.
I have such great relationships now! I am truly loved and supported by those I'm closest to. At the same time, I am no longer pouring energy into the bottomless pits, so I'm no longer drained. I'm at peace with myself and who I am. I no longer feel like I have to be doing something to be worthy of love. I can just be me and be loved for who I am.
I want the same for you. I want you to have great relationships in which you are loved and supported. I want you to feel worthy of love. I want you to be loved just for being who you are.
When I was a mediator, I wished that I could get to people and help them before their relationships got to the breaking point. So, I started breaking down the systems that I used as a mediator, helping over 2,000 people through conflict. I also looked at what I did as a person to help me to see the best in people and get the best out of life and my relationships.
I knew that wasn’t enough, though. I needed to also bring in the pieces about healthy self-care and letting go of toxic relationships that I had learned after the attempted kidnapping. The truth is that with certain people, you will be happiest when you are not in relationship.
Master Your Relationships | 5 Ways to Happy Relationships gives you a FREE SAMPLE from those systems!